Free audio and video training:
The 3 Steps to Pinpointing Your Purpose and Charting a Clear Course to Aligned Living
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A new revolution in purpose, contribution, and creative solutions for systemic and social issues.
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A new revolution in purpose, contribution, and creative solutions for systemic and social issues.
We're currently under construction, but you can check out a few things in the meantime.
FREE AUDIO AND VIDEO TRAINING:
The 3 Steps to Pinpointing Your Purpose and Charting a Clear Course to Aligned Living
FREE AUDIO AND VIDEO TRAINING:
The 3 Steps to Pinpointing Your Purpose and Charting a Clear Course to Aligned Living
Listen to our podcasts on living your purpose:
Align with what you say you want so that everything reconfigures around you to shift the odds in your favor and make it possible.
Stories about rising up, coming back, and living our purpose in the aftermath of challenging chapters and big life transitions.
In this show, we unpack the moments and stories that have shaped us and our purpose, and look at how we live our lives toward self-mastery.
For the creatives and entrepreneurs:
Launch or grow your Channel for Change:
On the agency side of Choose Your Calling, we're a full-service branding and online marketing boutique, podcast production studio, and publishing house dedicated to helping purpose-driven individuals have the conversation they're here to facilitate.
meet your mentors:
Stephenie Zamora and Nick McGowan
Purposeful living and transformation through story are big pieces of who we are and a driving force behind our work. We're deeply mission-driven and called to elevate the experience of others through mentorship, media, and meaningful movements.
Resources for living your purpose:
It’s time to thread the storyline and uncover the purpose of the path you’re walking.
There’s a simple formula for stepping into our purpose, and it’s accessible to all of us
Uncover your purpose in the aftermath of challenging chapters and big life transitions
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Your purpose has been hardcoded into you since before you were born.
But often, that purpose lies dormant as you try to navigate the world and its many systems. Systems that are inherently designed to strip you of who you are so that you fit inside the status quo. It gets buried beneath the many layers of obligation and expectation that feel impossible to escape.
Some people come across their purpose early in life, but for many, it takes a truly challenging chapter or breakthrough moment to activate us. To crack us so far open that we can no longer live out of alignment with our deepest truth, and we can no longer function in this world unless we're willing to do the work to get clear on who we're here to be.
For many, the idea of purpose is frustrating because it feels ever-elusive and impossible to pin down. We believe that purpose means something grand in scale, becoming globally celebrated and recognized, changing the course of history, or solving world problems.
But purpose is actually straightforward:
Show up, be you, and do what you feel called to do.
There’s no scope or scale of purpose that’s better or more important than another; there’s only what you feel called to do, how you feel called to do it, and where you feel called to show up.
The callings and expressions of your purpose change with the times and as life shapes us, but the seed is ever present—it’s always been there, since the moment you took your first breath. And after working with hundreds of clients over the last twelve years, I’ve discovered ways to activate our purpose without the necessity of hitting rock bottom or life as we know it coming undone.
There’s a simple formula for stepping into our purpose, and it’s accessible to all of us:
I'll be walking you through each part of the formula in our new program: Actualize!
We’re always in alignment; the question is, with what?
In order to live our purpose, we have to show up as our most fully expressed selves and live in total alignment with what feels right and true for us. But that’s not as easy as it sounds because we have years and years of subconscious programming, limiting beliefs, fears, traumas, unresolved grief, and unprocessed emotions that are holding us back from knowing our truest selves and living on the frequency of our desires. In this module, you’ll move through five conversations, workshops, and experiences that will bring you into alignment, including:
When you’re aligned and showing up in your fullest expression, aspects of your highest self open up and become available, allowing your purpose to reveal itself.
But it’s more than just clarity about what our purpose is; it’s about energetics and embodiment. Our purpose doesn’t become active in our being until we’re operating from the frequency of our desires, trusting in ourselves and our inner knowing, and allowing our legacy and vision to lead us forward. In this module, you’ll move through five conversations, workshops, and experiences that will activate your purpose, including:
Once we’re clear on our purpose and how it desires expression, we have to actualize it through a very specific type of action that goes against much of what we’ve been taught about manifestation and goal achievement.
Actualize means “to make real.” In our context, that means taking your purpose from an idea and grand vision to “work towards” and making it a reality in your life right now. Collapsing time and no longer waiting on external circumstances to change before you can access the opportunities, experiences, and influence you desire. In this module, you’ll move through five conversations, workshops, and experiences that will allow you to actualize your purpose without fear, pressure, or self-sabotage, including:
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Find healing and a new sense of wholeness, uncover the purpose of your path, and make the impossible happen in the aftermath of challenging chapters and big life transitions.
Life happens in ways that are exciting and beautiful, as well in ways that are heartbreakingly hard.
Wouldn’t it be nice if there was a map for how to navigate the unpredictable journey that is living this life?
A MAP FOR THINGS LIKE:
How to go from feeling deeply stuck, unfulfilled, or completely lost in your life, work, and relationships… to feeling joyful, passionate, in love with being alive, and deeply connected to those around you.
Finding your footing and stepping wholeheartedly into what comes next in the aftermath of big life-altering events such as grief, loss, trauma, depression, job loss, divorce, health issues, etc.
Having a deeper level of understanding around what you’ve been through, who you’re becoming, and what it will take to create exactly what you desire from where you stand now.
Getting clarity around exactly what it is you’re here to do—your soul’s work—so you can begin creating and contributing in a purposeful way. The way that only YOU can.
Getting off the path of “shoulds” that have left you feeling overwhelmed, numb, exhausted, and unhappy so that you can create a life that allows you to show up fully aligned and fully expressed.
How to create, be, do, and have more time, more money, more freedom, more of everything your heart desires—without getting derailed by all the blocks and beliefs you always bumped into.
That map exists, and not just an “everything happens for a reason and one day you’ll see all the good and gifts and blah blah blah” blueprint for healing or growth or purposeful living.
It's a real map that's just for YOU and YOUR experience.
The work isn't just about coming back in the aftermath of challenging chapters and big life transitions—it’s about what happens once you do—because the journey has altered you so deeply at your core.
You're now navigating hard questions, such as:
I know it doesn't feel like it from where you stand now, but this is the fun yet incredibly challenging part.
Journey Mapping is our signature process for how we navigate the journeys we’re walking. How we make sense of them, find meaning within them, and grow because of them.
In Journey Mapping, we work through five key stages:
STAGE 1:
Preparing for the journey
If you’re in stage one, you’re generally feeling uncertain about what’s to come, and you’re ready for a change, but not entirely trusting that it’s possible. You’re feeling some combination of tired, broken, sad, or lost. Disoriented inside your own life. Isolated, like no one understands what you’ve been through or what you’re still going through. You want to find your way ‘back’ somehow, but you’re not even sure what that means for you or your life. You’re lacking clarity and direction. In order to move through the first stage, you must develop:
STAGE 2:
Looking at the Ordinary World
If you’re in this stage, you’re beginning to understand ‘where you came from’—where your current journey began—and what you’re carrying forward with you that you need to release attachment to in order to grow... such as your winning strategy, old ecology, old ways of being and beliefs, subconscious programming, and the like. Knowing where you started and what the ‘invitation of your soul’ is gives you a sense of where you are on the journey so you’re better able to orient and ultimately move forward. To move through the second stage, you must develop:
STAGE 3:
Navigating the Special World
You’re in this stage if you’re beginning to build confidence in yourself, and you’re gathering more tools and support for digging into the challenging phases of the journey. You understand that things have changed—that you have changed, as well as how much so—and that the only way ‘back’ is through. You must now navigate and complete your hero’s journey by going through the phases of this ‘special world’, preparing for ‘death and rebirth’ so you can step into what‘s next. In order to move through the third stage, you must develop:
STAGE 4:
Choosing the Path for Your Return
If you’re in this stage, you’re likely feeling a bit raw and somewhat disoriented from the process of death and rebirth. But you’re also beginning to form a new sense of self, a new relationship with yourself, your life, and your work from this new, changed space. You’re building your ‘choice’ muscle and getting clear on what choices you need to make to complete the return and really heal and become whole again, whatever ‘healed and whole’ means to you in the aftermath. You’re ready to get clarity on what you’re creating next and what the purpose of this path was. In order to move through the fourth stage, you must develop:
STAGE 5:
Stepping into What Comes Next
If you’re in this stage, you’re feeling clearer, more peaceful, and more able to navigate the process of ‘rising up’ and ‘coming back’. Now you need to be primed to commit to next-level growth for yourself, getting clear on who you’re here to be and starting to do the work you’re here to do. Your unique contribution. Exciting!! To move through this final stage and into the next purposeful, whole, and healed stage of your life… you must be:
The coaching, lessons, practices, and exercises in Journey Mapping are designed to help you identify where you're at in the process, so you move through the stages with far more grace and ease — transform your life and step into what comes next on your terms.
Journey Mapping is for you, if you are:
In the aftermath of grief, loss, trauma, divorce, health issues, or another big life event.
Something happened, and whatever that “something” was for you, it fragmented aspects of your life — if not every single area of it — and has left you feeling unsteady inside your own self. You’re ready to have a deeper level of understanding of where you stand now, what you desire to create, and what it will take to actually get there. To truly rise up and come back.
Feeling stuck, unfulfilled, or completely lost in your life... unsure what comes next.
You’ve been plugging along, making money, and paying bills… maybe you’ve even started a family and have a good life with good people in it. But, you’re not happy. You feel empty and lost, like a shell of yourself. Or maybe you’re really feeling there must be more to life than your current experience! You’re ready to uncover the real, vibrant, creative self that’s here to contribute in a very unique way. To feel alive and thriving.
Ready to uncover your purpose—who you're here to be and the work you’re here to do.
We all walk unique paths, and those paths are meant to shape us into who we’re here to be. No matter what you’ve gone through or continue to walk through, your purpose and work in this world is incredibly individual and personal… something only you can do. You’re ready to know exactly what that is and how to organize your life around it.
When you join Journey Mapping, I’ll ask you to show up with a beginner’s mind and an open heart. I’ll also ask you to go deeper than you’ve ever gone before.
There is a process to uncovering the purpose of your path, but it begins with a willingness.
A willingness to feel everything fully and to stop denying any part of your experience. A willingness to sit in the unknown for far longer than is comfortable, to let go of the white-knuckle grip you have on your life and your sense of self. And a willingness to surrender to the unraveling and unfolding that is all things necessary.
Life is hard, yes… but life is simply shaping you. You get to decide what meaning to give the things you’ve walked through, what meaning you will make in your life going forward because of them. You get to decide who you’re going to become in the aftermath of life’s most challenging chapters… and when you make that decision from a place of total trust and surrender, you find that who you want to become is who you’ve always been at your core.
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Over 12 modules, we'll cover:
LESSON 1: Cultivating Trust and Faith
Connecting with your intuition and build deeper trust in yourself. Learn the powerful difference between change and transformation.
LESSON 2: Working with The Void
Learn to work with your emotions, transmute anger, and release sham. Embrace vulnerability and learn how to work with the powerful process of The Void.
LESSON 3: The World Before
Understand where you're coming from, the ecology of change, and how your subconscious holds you back so you can untangle your winning strategy.
LESSON 4: The Invitation of Your Soul
Address the first of two important choice points, move through the Terror Barrier, and understand how to turn fear into fuel to lean into what's next.
LESSON 5: Crossing the Threshold
Learn how to surrender as you move out of "the waiting room" (that place of limbo) and into the deep, catalyzing underbelly of your healing..
LESSON 6: Meeting of the Mentor
Access your own inner mentors so you can navigate the many tests and challenges and learn how capable you are of doing hard things.
LESSON 7: Navigating Death and Rebirth
Take the fear out of this part and learn how to navigate the many layers of death and rebirth as you begin to step into who you're here to be.
LESSON 8: MAKING YOUR RETURN
This is the second important choice point and where the real work begins. Push your edges and make the choice to rise up and come back.
LESSON 9: Reorienting to the World
Begin establishing new ways of being as you begin to reorient to your life, work, and relationships in the aftermath of all you've walked through.
LESSON 10: The Purpose of Your Path
Identify what's coming alive inside of you, gather all the lessons and the gifts, and begin to understand why you've walked through everything as you have.
LESSON 11: Identifying Your Soul’s Purpose
Thread your storyline and get clarity on what you're here to do in the world. Use this journey as a catalyst for growth and turning pain into purpose.
LESSON 12: Beginning Your Next Journey
Identify what it would mean to go to the next level in your growth, as well as to really begin living your purpose and leaving your legacy.
BONUS! When you join, you'll also get:
Twelve Weekly Journey Mapping AcuSesh™ Recordings
Acupressure is a simple and powerful practice that allows you to easily remove limiting beliefs, blocks, fears, stressors, and even past traumas that may be getting in the way of you creating what you desire.
Through Acupressure, we work with the vision center of the brain and clear any old or outdated information, heal and release stuck emotions and limiting beliefs, and begin to rewire your thought process, feelings, and patterns—all while sitting around on our butts doing a simple and relaxing exercise. You'll receive a new AcuSesh recording with each weekly module to deepen the work we're doing.
Access to our full Guest Expert Training Library
Seven powerful video trainings from my own personal coaches, mentors, brilliant friends, and inspiring role models to help deepen your own work.
Access to our Full Self-Coaching Guide Library
These guides provide you with our most powerful teachings, knowledge, tools, strategies, personal experiences, and more, all around specific subjects. The library includes nine self-coaching workbooks. Each one is a highly focused guidebook and worksheet combo that allows you to self-coach yourself through specific issues using our BEST tools.
We're currently under construction, so you'll receive registration access within 24 hours after submitting payment.